Isn't it amazing that even if you have the best life and everything is going great, none of it matters if you can't get your sleep. It's impossible to enjoy life if you haven't slept enough...it becomes maddening.
So what do you do? Assuming that you don't have underlying sleep apnea, hormone imbalance or another disorder that is disrupting your sleep there are some steps to take. First of all start keeping a sleep diary. I don't mean a 3 page novel, just a quick recap of the previous night that would go something like this...
1. Bed time--11:00
2. How many wake ups--3
3. What happened?-- Got up 2 out of the 3 to go to the bathroom. The 3rd time fell back asleep right away.
4. Woke up (for good) at 5:00
5. How did you feel? --Tired the first part of the day then I was ok.
It's important to look back and see what was waking you up or how long it took you to fall asleep. For example, was your nose bothering you? Did your snoring partner wake you up? Did your child wake you up? Do you always have to go to the bathroom? If so, are you drinking too much at night?
Sometimes all it takes to cure your insomnia is to solve the thing or things that wake you up and things seem to get better from there. If you are awakened and you can't get back to sleep it just becomes a habit so it's important to try and correct the things that might be waking you up first...then work on breaking your habit. If it's your child that is waking you then obviously you will have to wait that period out, but the other things that awaken you can be fixed.
I have worn earplugs every night since a college. My freshman year roommate was a terrific snorer and I became desperate for sleep. After she was no longer my roommate I found that the earplugs kept out a lot of unwanted noises. Today I still sleep with earplugs and have no problem hearing the monitor for my children but I don't hear my husband get up at 5:00am---which is good.
Try observing and writing down what your nightly battles are with sleep and it will help you fix the problem. If you have helpful ideas for others...please comment everyone needs suggestions.